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Snowwhite -> Need some dust to get to my happy side of the st. (8/20/2008 9:29:23 PM)
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I really need some dust to help me skip down my side of the happy street. Seems I've hit a huge pothole!
Something happened yesterday that had me cut my relationship with my mother. Until she gets the help she needs my kids and I will have NO contact. I've seen a side of her that I never knew about- I'm in total shock. Thank God Erin and the kids have been there for me. My father told me - after seeing Erin take care of you, I knew my daughter was being well taken care of.
Long story- but a short version is... in the past someone said to me - are you sure your father is your father? Well, at the time I totally blew that off. Since then I've heard my mother - well, didn't always play faithful mommy and wife. Which brought up a red flag for me. So I told my father about what I had heard years ago. He was truly surprised - and said that thought had NEVER crossed his mind- later on he called me back and said that- he gave it a lot of thought, and ya know, maybe you have a point? My entire family has black hair and I was born a toe head. Well, ok.... but then I found out 'one of her boyfriends' had blond hair.
So my dad told me - let's talk to your mom and see what she says.
Her reaction was NOT what I was expecting. She got mad at ME- yelled at me and told me to go get a DNA test! How could I hurt her like that! NEVER saying or explaining.. ya know, I know exactly who your father is - I'm 100% positive- just yelled at me and said YOU go get a DNA test.
She turned my brother against me yesterday and he wrote me an email telling me I was as stupid as they come, that he hopes I get a DNA test and it comes back showing he's not my father so it could explain why I'm so stupid. He went on....
I couldn't even breath when I read that. I called my mom who tells me- oh well, how do you like getting a bad email?
I honestly was so in shock, that I totally lost it.
My father and Erin told me if and when the time comes I want a DNA test- they would pay for it... no questions asked.
My aunt JUST went through this and found out my grandfather was NOT her father....
I honestly[8D] don't think my dad is not my dad- if I didn't have a lot of him in me {for example, I have his goofy toes... we have the same exact toes!} but still---
Believe it or not that is only a small part of what is going on with my mother- but the relationship at this point is done... until she can get help - there is NO more.
Sorry to dump all of this------
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